![]() By the time you decide others may not miss your presence much, the date is nigh. The odds are, you were debating about whether to go and how much attending would mean to you and the persons involved. The last-minute RSVP isn’t because you’re a flakey person. Introverted or extraverted, you may decline the invitation at the last minute. Sometimes you won’t feel like going out for a coffee or even attending a party or wedding. Many of the 16 personality types will move mountains when their family or friends need something, but everyone is human, which also means each personality has its limits. On the other hand, each type is also capable of a negative selfish act, defined as something that puts you ahead but puts others in financial distress, danger, or even emotional turmoil. Sometimes setting aside the needs of others for what’s best for you is important, and though others may perceive this as “selfish,” you should remember that self-care and putting yourself above others is sometimes the best thing you can do. Even the most caring Idealists can be selfish when the circumstances are right, but the idea that a “selfish” act is terrible shouldn’t always prevail. Though all personality types can show their humanity through kind acts, each type can also showcase some selfish behavior once in a while. ![]() But it’s important to remember that your ENTP boss, who may appear cold-hearted in the name of their ideals, has displayed their fair share of selfless moments, too. Of course, particular types may neglect their feelings more than others, such as the ESFJ (called “The Provider” for a reason) or the INFJ (“Counselor” types known for listening to others’ problems) due to stronger dutiful or empathetic traits. ![]() It doesn’t matter if you’re an ENTJ or an INTP-the bottom-line is every human possesses the capability for selfless acts when they’re called upon to do them. The truth is, all personality types have the capability of being selfless when they’re put under the right circumstances and find their hearts inclined to forget their own needs. When you think about selfless personality types, you might think of people-oriented types like the ENFJ, INFJ, or ESFJ. ![]() Still, when you begin forgetting tasks or priorities (or even where you placed your cell phone when you just had it a moment ago), it might be time to reconsider your schedule and lighten your load. It’s easy to overlook the voices in your head telling you not to book another work event or social engagement. Due to the fast-paced, modern lifestyle of the 21st century, you may pack your schedule as full as possible. ![]() ForgetfulnessĪll personality types may experience a forgetful, flighty attitude from time to time, and it isn’t type-specific. Understanding the positive and negative traits that all personality types can have may shed some light on why you can sometimes feel so very similar to others around you, even when your four-letter codes are the opposite. The fact is, every type has its strengths and weaknesses. But the 16 types also share a lot of similarities that may leave you feeling confused about who you are and why you bothered learning your personality type in the first place. Every personality in the 16-type system has a set of unique traits that sets them apart from other types. ![]()
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